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Cohabitation in numbers

Living together without marrying has gone from unusual to ordinary. Here's what the numbers say in the UK and the United States.

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How many couples cohabit in the UK?

In 2024 there were 3.5 million cohabiting couple families in the UK – 17.7 per cent of all families, up from 3.1 million, or 16.4 per cent, in 2014. Married couples still made up the majority: 12.8 million families, or 65.1 per cent.

3.5 million

cohabiting couple families in the UK in 2024 (ONS)
Cohabiting couple families as a share of all UK families
201416.4 %
202417.7 %

Source: Office for National Statistics, 2025

How many couples cohabit in the US?

In the US, 7 per cent of adults lived with an unmarried partner in 2023, up from 6 per cent in 2019. It is most common among the young: in 2019, 12 per cent of adults under 30 were cohabiting, compared with 5 per cent in 1995. Many more have done it at some point – 59 per cent of adults aged 18 to 44 had lived with an unmarried partner.

59 %

of US adults aged 18–44 have lived with an unmarried partner (Pew Research Center, 2019)

What the numbers say – and don't

The numbers don't say anything about what living together is like. But they show it has become an ordinary – often long-term – way of life. And that many couples live under rules quite different from marriage, often without knowing it.

Sources

  1. Families and households in the UK: 2024 – Office for National Statistics
  2. Share of US adults living without a romantic partner has ticked down in recent years – Pew Research Center
  3. Marriage and cohabitation in the U.S. – Pew Research Center

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